What is the most rewarding part of being a mom?

The most rewarding part is watching his heart bloom. He may be Daddy’s twin, but seeing my sensitivity in his comforting hugs and sweet reassurances is pure magic. After a tough pregnancy, my 3-year-old is my world. Our nightly affirmation rituals build his confidence, yet he teaches me the most about patience and boundless love. Watching him grow into a kind soul, while striving to give him everything he deserves, is my greatest joy and privilege. Being his mom is my favorite adventure.

What is the biggest lesson motherhood has taught you?

The biggest lesson was unlearning the sister role to fully embrace being a mother. I spent years helping raise siblings, thinking I knew it all, but my son taught me to stop just managing chaos and start leading with love. In my late 30s, I’ve learned to trade the illusion of control for connection and perfection for presence. I realized I wasn't behind, I arrived exactly on time, armed with wisdom, stability, and empathy. I am no longer the helper; I am the anchor.

What would you do with $20,000?

I would split the $20,000 to invest in both his future and his heart. Half would go directly into a 529 account to build a strong educational foundation. Half would fund adventures with both grandmas, ensuring he creates lasting memories with the women who influenced us most. Knowing our time with them is precious, I want him to experience the world with his grandmas while he can. This prize wouldn’t just be spent; it would build a legacy of love and connection that he will carry forever.