Seeing my kids love and serve others. Our values are working hard and having fun. They both love to grow and learn new things every day. My past is full of mistakes and my family helps me live in grace and pushes me to better every day. Being a mom gives me confidence to push myself and be ok with failure because I want to be an example for my kids.

There is not one right way to do things. Every kid is different. Every parent/child relationship is different. You have to adjust and keep an open mind in life. The most important thing in relationships is not being "right" but loving others. I've also learned being selfless is so much more rewarding (and less stressful) than worrying about what the next best thing is for you. We can strive toward goals but also be grateful for the moments in the process.

Hire a cleaning lady! hahaha just kidding... I would use part of that money to save for my husband and I 10-year anniversary. To be able to celebrate each other and what God has given us would be incredible. We dream of taking a trip to New Zealand. The other portion would likely go to save for the kids' future and tithe 10% back to the community.