The most rewarding part is knowing my children feel unconditionally loved. I made it my mission to break generational trauma so they would never have to experience what I did. Watching them grow into who they are meant to be, chase their dreams, and find their happiness is everything to me. Seeing my daughters become mothers has been one of my most cherished blessings, and being “Kiki” to my grandbabies fills my heart in a whole new way. I love Kiki weekends and giving my girls a break!

Motherhood has taught me that I don’t have to be perfect to be exactly what my children need. Showing up—even on the days I feel like I’m falling short—means everything to them. Even in my lowest moments, they still see me as their hero, their safe place, their person. That kind of love has taught me strength I never knew I had.

I would bring my entire family together. With children and grandchildren spread across multiple states, we haven’t all been in the same place since 2021—some of them haven’t even met yet. Creating that time together would mean everything to me. I would also use part of the funds to ease some of our financial strain, allowing me to continue showing up for my family the way they deserve.