The most rewarding part of being a mom is watching your child grow into their own person. Seeing the love, values, and little pieces of you reflected in who they become, and knowing you helped shape that. It’s in the small moments too; the hugs, the laughter, the “I need you” "mom can you" that remind you how deeply you matter in their world. Its the moments when you feel that you didn't do enough and they think you went above and beyond.

Motherhood has taught me that I can’t control everything and that’s okay. What matters most is showing up with love, patience, and consistency, even on the hard days. It’s about growing alongside my child, learning to let go a little, and trusting that doing my best is enough. I’ve learned that presence means more than perfection, and that the small, everyday moments are what truly matter.

If I had $20,000, I’d focus on creating both memories and long-term opportunities for my kids. First, I’d finish their room and make our home feel complete and comfortable. Then I’d invest in a robotics program for my 9-year-old to support his growth, creativity, and future skills.Finally, plan a special trip to Walt Disney World to make unforgettable family memories. It’s about balancing joy now with building a strong future.