Watching him grow and learn new things, seeing glimpses of myself and husband in him! Forming him into his own person with his own agenda and identity. Seeing him smile and laugh, watching his grandparents enjoy every moment and realizing the way all our lives have changed. We all want to be the best versions of ourselves for him. Nourishing him and seeing him thrive in our big world, cuddling, napping and protecting him! Listening to his ques and learning not only about him but myself!

That perfection is far fetched but loving unconditionally isn’t and when you love in such a way that nothing can change or interfere you receive it back. They’re your world and you are theirs, with determination and perseverance you can be who you want to be and who they need you to be. Nothing in life is easy but knocking down stereotypes and bridges becomes easier when you have someone you love more than yourself to teach and give the best life. Your definition of perfection has changed

Give my baby a starting fund and put away a portion to get us a home. Security is so important raising a child and having funds put away for him that can grow is primarily what I would use the money for, so he can pursue what he wants in school and become who he wants to be in his life! Using portion as a down payment for a home gives us the opportunity to grow together and continue learning together, making memories! As he gets older I him to know financial security and prioritize himself