First and foremost, the reward of motherhood is the privilege of being a front row spectator to the unfolding beauty of each of their lives. It's the quiet satisfaction of knowing that I've played a part in nurturing their growth, fostering their independence, and instilling in them the values that will guide them through their journey, and most of all, witnessing God's love pour into them as they pour into others.

A memory I will always cherish is our holiday tradition of serving the homeless. What resonates is the deep well of empathy my children possess. Without any prompting, they've offered the clothes off their backs, their last dollar, and food we just purchased from the grocery store. This isn't learned behavior, it's a fundamental part of who they are. Their inherent compassion and respectful engagement are a true testament to their character.

For me, $20,000 would be an opportunity to invest in growth on two levels. First, I would focus on cultivating my children's potential and securing their future, providing them with the resources they need to flourish. Secondly, inspired by the same desire for well being, I would dedicate resources to creating a real and healing environment for others, a space where authenticity is celebrated and individuals can find solace and acceptance.