I love to watch my children grow and learn. When you see their face when what they are learning clicks, you know you have done a great job. You see both of you are one step closer to your goal as a parent. Happy, healthy, self reliant additions to society.

I will never forget the day my youngest son learned to swim. We had been working on it all season and he was doing really well. He was in the pool with his big brother who was helping him practice in the shallow end then swims away cause he splashed his little brother. My oldest yelled "mom, he's chasing me" and just like that the youngest swam across the pool to get his big brother. He realized he was full on swimming, stops and hollors "I'm AWESOME!" Big hugs all around.

There are many things that can be done with that amount of money. Some will save some will buy their kids something special but I think.i will make memories. We've wanted to take our kids on a cross country National Parks trip in an RV 3 full weeks of family Craziness. But that is something none of us will never forget. The good, the bad and all the first times and laughs That is thw best way to spend $20,000 to me.